A private, judgment-free conversation starter
Explore separately, compare together.
Fill this out at your own pace. Switch between Partner A and Partner B if you share an iPad. Each person’s ratings and notes remain separate until you choose to compare them.
How it works: For every interest, select Fantasy (0–3), Reality (Y/M/N/H/FO), and optionally Role (G/R/B). Choose one per row; tap the same choice again to clear it. A rating isn't consent, and either person can set or change a boundary at any time. Nothing is uploaded. Answers are saved locally in this browser when storage is available; export a backup for extra security.
Fantasy: 0 None · 1 Curious · 2 Interested · 3 Very interested
Reality: Y Yes · M Maybe · N No · H Hard limit · FO Fantasy only
Role: G Giving/performing · R Receiving · B Both. Leave empty if not applicable.
Partner A
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Partner B
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19 categories · individual interests · Tap a category to open or close it.